Margin through Meal Planning

If there's one thing that is constant in our house, it's the question "What's for dinner?" 

It used to come only from my sweet husband...who sometimes had the tendency to ask several times a day. That fact is a family joke now, and a bit endearing to me. :) But now that they care, our kiddos ask the question too...usually right after breakfast. Especially Hadleigh. She likes to know the plan of the day.

I have to be honest...some mornings I have NO clue what to answer. If I ask them what they want to eat, these are their usual responses:

Hadleigh: "Chicken Enchiladas. They're my favorite."

Nathanael: "Something with Brussels Sprouts. Or we could go to Buffalo Wild Wings."

Madeleine: "Chicken Pot Pie. No Brussels Sprouts."

Brent: "Food."

So the first week of 2013, I was in a slump. Because who wants to go to the grocery store after vacation? Thankfully, I have a husband who enjoys cooking when he can & who knows it's a blessing to me to have a break from the kitchen periodically. So he filled in. Shopped. Cooked. Yum.

After that week, I knew I needed a plan, and so I sat on two different afternoons, surrounded by cookbooks and charted out meals a week at a time. Calendar and grocery lists. Shopping. Done. And so, the last few weeks (if you follow me on instagram, you know this!) I have been cooking up a storm.

There are two things that motivate me to cook: 

1) Having all the ingredients already in my house keeps me sane.   While I love having a Wegmans store within distance, I don't love shopping every day...nor, with homeschooling, do I have the time to do so.  I plan for a week & buy for a week. (This is what's working for me right now. In the past, I've planned for a month and then made one big trip at the beginning, with weekly trips for produce & dairy.)

2) I love trying out new recipes. When I'm in a cooking slump, it's usually because I'm relying on standbys that, while easy, don't excite me. I received several cookbooks for Christmas and really enjoy them so far...so if you need some fresh ideas, pull out an old favorite or new cookbook!

These days, I hear the word "margin" thrown around a lot. I think it's the new popular buzzword in certain circles...and it's a good one.

When I have a plan for our meals, specifically dinner, I have some margin...for the day and the week. I don't have to spend time thinking or running out to the store or deciding what pantry staples can combine to make an edible meal. I can quickly answer the "What's for dinner, Mom?" question and then enjoy the spare moments that follow. 

There are often many times that I don't want to take the time...to fly by the seat of my pants...to be more spontaneous (like this week!) But I know that the need to plan dinner won't change anytime soon--or ever--and so committing time to organizing a good plan is one way I can use my time wisely to create a bit more margin in our life.

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As it's Wednesday, how about a recipe to add to your list for next week? This is a yummy one! I adapted (ever so slightly) from Smitten Kitchen's new cookbook. I increased the grapes and olives, as my grapes seemed much smaller than hers...and because we love olives in our family.

Harvest Roast Chicken with Grapes, Olives and Rosemary

3 pounds chicken parts (thigh drumsticks and breast with skin and bones)

Salt and pepper 

1 tablespoon olive oil 

2 cup small seedless grapes 

1 1/2 cup pitted Kalamata olives

Two small shallots thinly sliced 

1/2 cup dry white wine 

1/2 cup chicken broth 

1 tablespoon finely chopped fresh rosemary

1. Preheat oven to 450° with the rack in middle. Pat chicken dry with a paper towel and season generously with salt and pepper. 

2.  Heat oil in ovenproof 12 inch heavy skillet (cast-iron if possible) over medium-high heat until it shimmers. Working in two batches, brown the chicken skin side down first, turning over once, about five minutes per batch. Do not move chicken until the skin releases itself and has a nice brown color to it. 

3. Return all chicken to the pan skin side up and pour in the grapes, olives, and shallots.  Roast the chicken in the oven until it has just cooked through and the juices run clear, about 20 minutes. 

4. Transfer the chicken, grapes, and olives to a platter and cover with foil.  Then add wine and chicken broth to the pan juices in the skillet; bring the liquid to a boil, scraping up any brown bits until it has reduced by half, about 2 to 5 minutes.  Strain sauce, if desired, then pour it over the chicken. Garnish with fresh rosemary.  Enjoy!

And in case you're curious if your little ones will enjoy?

I'll let the picture speak for itself:

Today, I'm linking up with Edie over at Life in Grace for her once-a-month series this year on using our Time.

Let me know how you like the recipe & if you have any ideas to share about how you meal plan!

Perfect for an afternoon snack...

...or breakfast. Or both.

This is one of my favorite cookies...because it combines three favorite flavors...and doesn't let raisins come anywhere near the oatmeal.   I've used bittersweet chocolate chips here...which I think is a perfect balance for the sweet peanut butter oatmeal dough...but you can definitely use your favorite type of chocolate chips here.

Enjoy!

Oatmeal Peanut Butter Chip Cookies

1/2 cup butter, room temperature
1/2 cup sugar
2/3 cup brown sugar, not packed
1/2 cup peanut butter
1/2 tsp vanilla
1 egg
1 cup flour
1 tsp baking soda
1/4 tsp salt
1 cup oatmeal (not quick-cooking)
3/4 bag Ghiradelli 60% Cacao Bittersweet Chocolate baking chips

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

2. In the bowl of a stand mixer, cream butter and sugars together until smooth. Beat in the peanut butter, vanilla, and egg until well-blended.

3. In a small mixing bowl, combine flour, baking soda and salt. Add flour mixture to butter mixture, stirring just until moistened. Stir in the oatmeal and chocolate chips until combined.

4. On a greased or parchment-lined baking sheet, drop cookie dough by tablespoonfuls. Bake for 10-12 minutes, until the edges of cookies are slightly browned. Cool on cookie sheets for 5 minutes and then transfer to wire rack to cool completely.

Currently...

drinking...my fifth cup of hot tea today.

wearing...cozy sweater, skirt, & fuzzy socks.

listening...to the hum of the dryer in a quiet house.

watching lately...old episodes of Alias.

thinking...about a few projects I want to be done with by the weekend.

eating...an oatmeal, peanut butter, chocolate chip cookie.

reading...Desperate & A Swiftly Tilting Planet

hoping...that my cold would vanish soon.

wondering...where exactly my brother is in the Philippines right now. Miss him.

enjoying...the fact that the bathrooms are all clean & kids laundry is all done. And put away.

wishing...my dear friend Missy an early Happy Birthday!


What are you up to on this Monday?

Cold, rainy January days

All that sounds good to me on cold, rainy January days is staying in bed. Reading by the fire. Sipping a cup of tea. Or three. Eating soup. Curling up with blankets and cozy sweaters and fuzzy socks. Watching You've Got Mail or Emma or Pride and Prejudice for the millionth time.

But there are three precious children in my care and items in our schedule that can not be avoided despite cold, rainy January days. And so we brave the rain and venture out, me, wrapped in the coziest sweater I can get away with out of the house, and my children, looking like they are expecting to play in 60 degree weather. (My children do not believe in coats. Unless snow is involved. We're working on that one.)

But then we return to a warm home and soup is definitely a part of the plan. We will have had 3 soups by the end of the workweek this week. Yum.

For Christmas, Brent's parents gave me William Sonoma's Soup of the Day: 365 recipes for every day of the year. I am already thoroughly enjoying it. 

The recipe I'm sharing today is my version of page 72 from this delightful cookbook...I have a feeling you might see some others shared soon. I used chicken stock instead of broth in the recipe...and I have a feeling that made an amazing difference...but if you just have broth on hand, I'm sure it will be yummy too! The whole family loved it...my only complaint? That it only served the 5 of us. No leftovers for lunch. (I will probably double it next time, as I like to be able to freeze half or use the rest for lunches.)

Moroccan Lamb Meatball & Couscous Soup

Meatballs:

1 tsp ground coriander

1 tsp ground cumin

1/4 tsp curry powder

1/4 tsp dried oregano

1/4 tsp dried thyme

1/4 tsp dry mustard

1/8 tsp chili powder

pinch of ground cinnamon

salt and pepper 

1 lb. ground lamb

2 Tbsp tomato paste

Soup:

1 cup Israeli couscous (pearls)

3 Tbsp. olive oil

2 shallots, minced

5 cloves garlic, minced

3 cups chicken stock

1 Tbsp chopped mint

1. For the meatballs, preheat oven to 375 degrees. Oil a baking sheet.

2. In a bowl, combine first 8 ingredients (through the cinnamon). Stir in 1/2 tsp salt. Add the lamb and tomato paste to the spices and mix with your hands to combine well.

3. Using a teaspoon, scoop up 1 tsp of lamb mixture at a time, rounding the meat into a ball. Place on the cookie sheet. (I believe this yielded 45-50 bite-sized meatballs for me.) Bake until meatballs are fully cooked, about 10 minutes.

4. In a small saucepan, bring 1 1/4 cups water to a boil over high heat. Add the couscous, reduce heat to low and cover, cooking until all the liquid is absorbed, about 10 minutes.

5. Meanwhile, in a large dutch oven, warm the olive oil over medium-high heat. Saute the shallots and garlic for about 1 minute. Add the chicken stock and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat to low and add the meatballs and couscous. Allow to simmer 10 minutes, until warmed. Removed from heat. Stir in the mint, season with salt and pepper, and serve immediately.

Do you have a favorite recipe for cold days? I'd love to know!

What I Said, What I Did, What I'm Reading

2012 was not a banner year for me, as far as reading is concerned. 

I posted this picture here last year, with my "reading plan," also known as 

What I Said.

And this picture, is to the best of my memory,

What I Did (read).

So, the picture's a bit deceiving. The stack of books laying flat (and which is missing Anne of Green Gables) are the books read in their entirety.  I am 1/5 of the way through Anna Karenina, and getting close to finishing the three books to the left of Anna. The two on the left I am reading (and writing through) slowly. And I'm okay with that.

Apparently, I didn't pursue the more challenging reads on my list.

So here is my start for this year, also known as

What I'm Reading (this year).

I really want to get through Anna Karenina, and I also want to keep the Letters of John Newton & Leaving Cold Sassy on my list. I have some gifts I want to read: Green Dolphin Street and Cranford. I will continue with my writing books. Adding Andree Seu's three-volume collection of essays this year.

And I will probably finish Madeleine L'Engle's A Wrinkle in Time series before I begin any other fiction. I don't know how I couldn't get into these books growing up. I have enjoyed it so very much...reading by booklight until I can't keep my eyes open anymore.

And my first non-fiction book to read this year? The one on top: Desperate by Sarah Mae and Sally Clarkson. I've been looking forward to this since I first heard about it when I learned there might be a MomHeart conference coming to NC. I'm really looking forward to the conference in February...and I think this book arrived at the perfect time for me. (And there are some great giveaways going on for the release of the book this week...just click on the link in the book title!)

I know there will be other books...there always are...that grab my interest and distract me from my plan. But that's okay too.

Tell me what you are looking forward to reading this year?

twenty thirteen

I've been slow to return to this space this year. Forgive me.

The dawning of a new year is for me like the dawning of a new day. 

A quiet time. A reflective time.

I captured the picture above on our first morning in Asheville before Christmas. I'm not sure why I woke up. I was tired, the room was empty, and it was before seven (the time when our children can leave their rooms.)

But when I looked out my childhood window, this beautiful sky greeted me. The forest was ablaze.

And I sat, soaking it in.

That's kind of how I still feel...like I'm soaking in this new year...wondering what it will hold for us. It will be another year of change, for we know a move awaits us with the coming of summer.

This may be the first year that I don't have a written list of some sort of goals/resolutions/dreams. Not that I don't have any...but I'm still pondering what it is this year that I want to focus on...

What it is that I want this space to be.

And so, I'm still soaking in this new year and the beauty that I already see in it.

Packages and Names...tied up with String!

When I saw the tutorial for twine-wrapped wire names on Pinterest, I knew that I wanted to use the idea for my embellishments for this year's brown paper packages! 

When I posted the above picture on Instagram, I had some questions about the process I used.

The tutorial featured on  Crafts Unleashed (which I followed) is really helpful...so I won't go into the full process, but just share some additional tips I found to be helpful.

Molding the wire into the names takes just a couple minutes. Wrapping the twine takes a while. I think it took me almost an entire two hour movie to finish Hadleigh's name from start to finish. 

Initials obviously are much quicker projects but still cute!

Cut more wire than you think you will need. I used about 20 inches for names with 4 or 5 letters. I used a little more than double that with Nathanael & Madeleine...and still came up a bit short with Madeleine. Looping letters like "e" and "l" don't take much wire, but letters like "a" "d" "m" and "n" have extra folds to make the letters form correctly and therefore require more wire per letter.

The above picture shows what the names or initials look like before stringing.

Leaving the letters with wider gaps helped me to wrap the twine more easily. If you compare the above picture to the one below, you can see how I tightened the wire after wrapping with the twine.

You can tighten the wire before wrapping, but it is more difficult to make the twine wrap smoothly in the creases.

On letters that overlap each other, like "L," "H," "G," and "K" I would recommend securing the point where the wire overlaps together with one wrap of twine AFTER you've wrapped all of the letter (up to to the overlap point). This way the letter does not stretch apart easily.

With the "T" above, I wrapped the twine up the left side of the "T", and halfway down the right side. Then I wrapped a small piece of wire to cross the "T," following the original tutorial's directions for wrapping it with twine. Once the cross-piece was covered in twine, I continued to wrap the bottom half of the "T."

And my last tip...double names. :) I used a really long piece of wire and started from the beginning. When I reached the "h" in Sarah, I spelled right to left with the wire for the second name, and I actually found this to be much easier than working from left to right.  I left a little extra between names so that I could center "Kate" underneath "Sarah," knowing that I could always make the loop after the "h" a little bigger or smaller.

I think these would make adorable ornaments or cute decorative pieces to hang in a child's room!

If you have any questions, please ask in the comments, and I will add my responses there!

Grinch Punch Party

Our children LOVE the Grinch. Watching the movie...reading the book...searching for inflatable lighted Grinches on our Christmas light drives.

So this year, when I saw the recipe for "Grinch Punch" on Pinterest, I knew it would be a hit for this year's viewing of How the Grinch Stole Christmas.

Grinch Punch

Lime Sherbet

Sprite

Simple Syrup

Green sprinkles/sanding sugar

fun straws

1. Pour simple syrup into a wide bowl. Pour sprinkles into another similar bowl. Dip each serving glass first in the simple syrup and then in the sprinkles, coating the rim.

2. Place two to three scoops of lime sherbet (we used a rainbow one as we couldn't find lime) in each prepared glass. Pour Sprite to fill glass.

3. Add a straw and serve! (We used milkshake straws, which work great for younger children trying to drink ice cream through a straw!)

My kids (and I!) loved it. Nathanael said it tasted kind of like key lime pie. :)

Enjoy...just like the Grinch would now!

Capturing December, take two...

Here are the latest pictures, via instagram.

 Day 8: Ornament

 Day 9: Something you're reading

Day 10: Wrapping Paper

Day 11: Green

Day 12: A Beautiful Sight 

Day 13: Family (hike) 

Day 14: Christmas Tree

Day 15: Favorite Holiday Song, 

via Lindsay Letters

Day 16: Outside Christmas Lights

Day 17: Presents

Day 18: Stockings

 Day 19: Candy Canes

Day 20: Tree Topper

A Christmas Tour

Just a few peeks into Christmas at our house this year...joining in with The Nester's 2012 Christmas Tour of Homes! 

I was a little nervous about figuring out how we would adjust our Christmas decor to this new house...but it was so fun to find new spots to decorate and to see our "favorite things" in a new perspective!

Let's begin in the family room:

Stockings hung by the chimney...and the mantle decorated for the first time ever! (Our advent countdown books are in that red basket!)

The "kitchen tree" in the family room. (No room in the kitchen this year...and the real tree didn't fit in the family room, so it's off in the "library.") Thankful for the warmth & twinkle of this little tree.

So excited to have a piano to decorate this year! I bought the score of Handel's Messiah on a whim at a used bookstore this summer, hoping that I could use it "someday."

This nativity is my favorite. I began to paint it just before Nathanael was born...and I finished it a few weeks before Madeleine was born. So many precious memories of my own hopeful expectations while pondering the One in whom our Hope rests.

The Library:

Our tree, full of special ornaments. And you can see a peek of the Christmas train off to the left.

The children's gingerbread village. They love setting this up each year. It's lovely at night...when all the lightbulbs work!

This might be Hadleigh's very favorite Christmas decoration. She is probably the only one who remembers a Christmas spent at my parent's home...and therefore, my parent's little skating rink. Madeleine's first Christmas was also the first one we didn't spend in Asheville. We were back and forth between Texas and moving to Oklahoma that December...and my Mom found an ice skating pond, just like hers, so that our Christmas would have something familiar to add to our new family traditions for Christmas. It is still magical to watch...and Hadleigh can often be found, mesmerized as she watches the skaters glide across the pond.

The Dining Room:

Our advent candles...I love the mercury glass candlesticks instead of a wreath!

Hadleigh and Nathanael made a pair of these banners when they were 3 & 5...and I think they are one of my favorite child-made decorations.

On top of the buffet...

And below. I love to see the pile of Christmas cards grow! (And mine are going out tomorrow!)

In the office/craft space:

Christmas projects of mine over the years on a top shelf.

Our growing collection of December Daily albums...every year since 2008.  2010 & 2012 are in process!

And upstairs:

The children's room trees...the purple tree (selected by Madeleine) is new this year for her room. Nathanael's tree makes me smile each year, as I recall so many memories of it. 

It's first Christmas was in my college dorm!

I hope you enjoyed this peek into our home!  Let me know if you participated...I love seeing homes decorated at Christmas!